by Dr Connie Osborne.
Stories can help people learn more about HIV/AIDS. This story can be used as a training exercise with health workers or carers. Tell the story, changing the names to common ones in your area and then go through it again slowly, asking the discussion questions.
When Nakala became pregnant for the fourth time, she hoped for a boy this time, as she already had three lovely girls. She went to the antenatal clinic for regular check-ups, including a blood test and checks on blood pressure and weight gain.
The new baby was a girl, Ilinanga, who was born healthy and strong. Nakala breastfed her baby knowing this was the best food for her. However, during her first year, Ilinanga had many illnesses and infections and stopped gaining weight at nine months. Nakala was surprised and upset since this had not happened with her other children. Then Ilinanga developed a bad cough that would not go away. The nurse suggested an HIV test which Nakala and her husband agreed to, although they were sure the baby didn’t have HIV. They hoped the nurse would look harder for other causes for Ilinanga’s illness once she knew the test was negative.
However, when the results came back, Nakala and her husband, Samson, were shocked. The test was positive. Both Nakala and Samson were then tested and both were found to be infected with the HIV virus. Nakala asked herself ‘When did I get infected?’ She and Samson had never used condoms in their marriage. Nakala had been a faithful wife and had never slept with anyone else, but could she say the same for Samson? And when did Ilinanga get HIV? Before or during her birth, or from breastmilk?
Nakala worried about the health of all the family. She worried about how to tell the girls about Ilinanga’s illness. She and Samson agreed not to have the three girls tested but they worried about whether they might get infected through close contact. For many of their concerns there didn’t seem to be easy answers. The nurse could give them only the facts about HIV infection and what support was available locally to help them. Nakala and Samson had to make their own decisions and try to keep themselves as healthy as possible – eating well, taking regular exercise and preventing infections or treating them early. Their faith helped them to ‘put God first’ and learn to trust him for the future.
Dr Connie Osborne is a consultant Paediatrician at the University Teaching Hospital, Private Bag RW1X, Lusaka, Zambia. This article was adapted from an article which first appeared in Child Health Dialogue/AIDS Action.